Sara’s last note

I recently met a mom who had moved to Yakima from another city just a few days before she ended up across the table from me at lunch. Melissa’s stuff was still in boxes but she’d already connected with a social group and was quickly learning about pediatricians, parks, preschools and all the other services and activities she was going to need to establish a new home for her family.

How did she find this info? Playdate.

As the founder of the magazine, I think that’s pretty cool. I started this magazine because I knew other moms would really use it. It’s such an honor to know that you do.

This issue marks the beginning of Playdate’s fourth year, and it also will be my last issue as coordinator. Want to know what I’m going to do next? Well, turn to page XX to find the schedule for Outdoor Summer Cinema. I’m planning to share some popcorn with a few friendly monsters and Indiana Jones.

Of course, it would be nice to sleep in, but I’m sure the kids will want to hit the pool for morning swim lessons. Then we’ll pick berries from the garden and books from the library. Later, perhaps, we’ll ride bikes on the Greenway or catch a game with the Bears.

Some days, we’ll eat popsicles for breakfast and watch too much TV.

At summer’s end, when it’s time to head back to school, I suspect we’ll feel conflicted: Excited to see what the future holds, but also longing for a few more sweet summer days. At least, I hope that’s the way it goes.

Hope to see you around —

Sara Bristol

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Photos from the Expo

It’s been a few weeks since the Playdate Family Expo and I’ve finally had a chance to cross a few things off my nagging “to do” list, including sharing some of the photos from our fun day at the Yakima Convention Center. (Thanks to Erin Fahsholtz for the photos.)

THANKS so much to all our vendors and parents who brought your kids down to check out the action. This first-ever event was a huge success, with attendance estimated at 2,500. If you’d like to read more about it, click here to read the Yakima Herald-Republic’s article.

The photo that ran in the newspaper reminds me of one of my favorite moments of the day: A woman approached me to ask if there were any hand sanitizing stations for people to use after they’d held the snake. “I didn’t know there was a snake,” I said. Then she said: “Oh, yeah, there’s about an 8-foot python in the center of the room.”  Good to know…

So, in addition to sanitizing stations, we’d love to hear any other thoughts and ideas you have about the Expo. Please take a minute to let us know what you liked, didn’t like, what could be done better and whether you’d come back next year. The 2nd Annual Playdate Family Expo will be March 12, 2011!

Don’t miss this one!

The name calls attention to the trees, but this event’s really about kids.

In fact, I’ve been regretting that I haven’t had the time to give a little more fanfare to the Yakima Area Arboretum’s annual Arbor Festival. It’s certainly one of Yakima’s Top 10 events for children.

This year’s festival, themed “The Giving Tree,” will be from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. Saturday, April 17. Admission is free. I’d recommend bringing a picnic lunch or snacks so you can make a day of it.

The event offers about 30 educational stations, giving children the opportunity to plant a tree, learn about recycling, look at bugs and more.

“This year I encourage all the kids to bring their own goody bags,” says Colleen Adams-Schuppe, the Arboretum’s co-executive director. “I want the kids to start thinking about how they can reduce waste. Bringing their own bags to the Arbor Festival is a great way to start and can help save trees.”

The theme of “The Giving Tree” will focus on the benefits trees provide, including fruit, shelter, shade, beauty, clean air and inspiration.

A special “Giving Tree” station will help raise funds for Haitian earthquake victims. Boxes of apples can be purchased for $20. A house will be built in Haiti for every 385 boxes sold.

— Sara Bristol

Odd question answering service

One fun thing about working for a newspaper is the unusual questions we sometimes get asked. Want to know what the low temperature was last Tuesday or what time the city bus is going to pass by your house? For whatever reason, some folks think the newspaper staff might be a good source for this type of info.

Though we don’t know everything, there’s a certain amount of job security that comes from providing people with the information they’re seeking. And, hey, I can Google as well as the next guy, so I typically try to track down answers when I can.

Maybe I learn something, too.

So, today I took a call from someone who was wondering how to make crystals from epsom salts.

I’d never heard of this before, but I found the answer easy enough. If you’re looking for something to do with the kiddos, it’s a pretty simple science project .

But, I have to say that this crystallization project (i.e. how to make rock candy) looks much more delicious:

If you’re looking for other science fair ideas, Michaels (1729 S. First St., Yakima; 452-6484) is hosting a free Science Fair Demonstration from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Saturday, Feb. 27. Kids can make a free molecule project with Crayola Model Magic, while supplies last.

Last call for baby photos!

The deadline’s almost here… We’re going to be picking the winner of our Cover Baby Photo Contest next week. Are you as excited as I am???

Our original deadline for submissions was Feb. 15, but now I realize that’s a holiday and I’m going to be out of the office until Wednesday. So I’m giving you an extra day: Both mail and e-mail submissions must be received by 11:59 pm. Tuesday, Feb. 16.

We’ll shoot a new photo of the winning baby for the cover of the magazine, so your photos don’t have to be perfect. We’re looking for babies (up to 18 months) that will show off for the camera.

Here’s a look at our past winners:

This is Joshua Fuentez, whose big smile won the hearts of our judges back in 2008.  We tried a couple different idea for the cover photo shoot:

But this is the one we picked:

Last year, we fell in love with another boy in a hat, Dante Manglona. I don’t have the photo that was submitted by his parents here at my fingertips, but he was wearing the same adorable had and outfit we ran on the cover:

So, will this year’s winner be wearing a hat? Will the winner be a boy or girl? Depends on what you send us…

Who are the judges, anyway? “Not me,” says Playdate Coordinator Sara Bristol (That’s right, I just quoted myself.)  Because I know too many of the children submitted for our contests, I always recuse myself from judging & round up a panel of Herald-Republic employees to pick the contest winners. Each judge votes for several of their favorites & then I tally up the votes.

Good luck & have a great Valentine’s/Presidents’ Day weekend.

Sara

Cover Baby Contest is back!

It’s time for our third annual Cover Baby Photo Contest! We’re looking for a baby (up to 18 months old) with loads of personality to photograph for the cover of our April/May issue. As space permits, we’ll publish photos of more little ones inside the magazine and on our Web site.

• Submissions must be received by Feb. 15, 2010. Include a self-addressed return envelope if you’d like your prints returned.
• All submissions should include the baby’s name and birth date and a parent’s name, phone number and address.
• Babies must be residents of Yakima County.
• Babies must be no older than 18 months on April 1, 2010 (born on or after Dec. 1, 2008).

Email your submissions to contest@playdateyakima.com or mail them to:

Playdate Magazine
PO Box 9668
Yakima, WA 98909

You may also drop them off at the Yakima Herald-Republic, 114 N. Fourth St. in downtown Yakima. Doors are open 8 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. Monday through Friday. After hours, there’s a mail slot in the door.

Good luck!

A peek behind the scenes

While you’re waiting for the next issue of Playdate to come out tomorrow (Wednesday, Jan. 27), I thought you might enjoy a little peek behind the scenes of what we’ve been up to the last couple weeks.  One of the really fun parts of working on Playdate is the page design, where we finally get to see the stories & photos come together to create a (hopefully) attractive & interesting package.

Sometimes it’s fun to kick around a few ideas. In this issue, our “cover story” is called “The Tantrum Zone.” Here are two different concepts the designer (TJ Mullinax) tried on for size:

Which would you choose? Be sure to let us know what you think about our choice when you pick up a copy of the new issue later this week.

Make an Advent Calendar

With Thanksgiving now behind us, it’s time to pack up the pilgrim plates and flip the calendar to December (yes, already!). In the latest issue of the magazine, I promised to give you a new craft project each week through the end of the year. So, here’s the first project: A homemade advent calendar.

At my house, advent calendars are a big deal. The best part of the season, according to my husband. He’d never even heard of advent calendars until a few years ago — yes, I married a Martian — but now he insists the season wouldn’t be complete without his imported German advent calendar, which I buy online.

A few years back, it was almost impossible to find advent calendars in the stores, but they seem to be gaining popularity now. I’ve seen simple chocolate advent calendars at the grocery store for about $1.99 and the craft stores have all kinds of paint-it-yourself wooden options that you can reuse from year to year.

In case you, like my husband, are also from Mars and don’t know what I’m talking about… An advent calendar is a way to count down the days until Christmas, usually from Dec. 1 to 24. If you’re interested in a little advent history, read more here.

In addition to being fun all month long, I love advent calendars for kids because they help answer the “how many more days” question. So, at the very least, I’d recommend making a paper chain.

You can use anything from recycled newspaper to printer paper to extra pages of scrapbook paper or gift wrap. Just cut 24 strips of paper, approximately 1.5 inches wide by 8 inches long. Tape them together into a chain & hang them on the wall. Each day, through Christmas Eve, you’ll remove one link. (Hint: Before you hang the chain, I’d recommend numbering each link with the date 1-24 so you’ll be able to quickly determine whether a link has already been removed each day. This saves you from counting them over & over again…. learned that one the hard way.)  At my house, we like to make paper chains for counting down other anticipated events as well, such as a birthday or family vacation.

Okay, finally now, I’m going to tell you about the little paper bag advent calendars my family’s been making. I first made this last year for my dad, who said it was the best gift he’d ever received. So, keep it in mind for a grandparent gift as well as for the kids.

Here’s what you need:

* 24 small bags. I got these colorful bags at Michaels craft store. Small lunch bags would work too, and Chinese take-out boxes would be super cute.

* 24 small clothes pins (also from the craft store) or paper clips.

* A 5-foot length of ribbon.

* Stickers. We used number stickers, but you could also hand number the bags with a Sharpie. Also, this is a great use for leftover scrapbooking stickers with a holiday theme.

* 24 items to stuff the sacks (more on this below).

So, the basic idea is that you number each bag 1-24. On Dec. 1, you open bag No. 1 and see what prize is inside, repeat the next day with bag No. 2, etc. I love the little bags (as opposed to the drawers of most reusable calendars) because you’re not so limited in size of items … and the variety of daily surprises is what makes this fun.

I let the kids decorate their own bags, then I secretly stuffed them with the goodies. This year, I also sent each of my parents their own advent calendar. Since I can’t be with them as much as I’d like during the holidays (they live in Oregon), it’s a nice way to be a regular part of their day.

Anyway, here are some ideas for fillers for grandparents: Ornaments, jewelry, pocket-sized tissues, soaps, small office supplies (sticky notes, push pins), seed packets and bulbs, playing cards, fishing lures, fridge magnets, wallet-sized photos of the kids, travel or sample-sized items, coffee/tea bags, hand-written notes or drawings, and — of course — chocolates and other candies.

You’ll want to decide on a budget since the cost for 24 items can get out of control pretty quickly. I’d suggest doing at least five “gifts” and then filling the rest of the days with an inexpensive treat.

For the kids, filler ideas include:

* Candy. Find cute foil-wrapped chocolates at Boehm’s Candy Store in the Chalet Place shopping center, 56th and Summitview avenues, Yakima. Also, Top Foods grocery store at S. First Street and Washington has tons of bulk candies.

* Small toys: Leftover party favors, Silly Putty, toy cars, Bakugan, Polly Pockets. The Clover Leaf at 4110 Main St. in Union Gap has some fun stuff for advent calendars or stocking stuffers. Dollar stores are also a great place to look.

* Holiday ornaments.

* Pencil sharpeners and erasers. We found lots at the school supply store at 302 W Yakima Ave. Other small arts and craft supplies are great, too. A new box of 24 crayons would fit in my bags.

* Items for their treasure box: Shells, colored rocks, marbles, etc.

* Coins.

Now enjoy the Christmas countdown!

See our latest contest winners

Sorry for the delay, folks. I usually try to get the Web site updated on the same day the magazine publishes (latest issue hit the stands last Wednesday), but I just got the latest winners of our Gotcha photo contest posted this morning. You can see them here.

Also, I’m getting lots of Christmastime photo submissions lately… but the next issue will be February/March. So, here’s a little tip: We’re more likely to pick photos that fit the season, or where the season doesn’t matter. Also, we prefer photos that are spontaneous and capture a glimpse of the child’s personality or a special moment, something that makes you think “Gotcha!” It’s not so much about the cuteness of the kid (they’re all cute, right?) as the quality of the photo.

For more about how to enter, click here.

Holiday issue out today!

The December/January issue of Playdate will be distributed Wednesday, Nov. 25. Our theme this issue is “Have a Crafty Christmas.” In the magazine, you’ll learn how to assemble a miniature graham cracker house (a gingerbread-esque house, a friend called it) as well as a sugar cube igloo. We’ll also be rolling out a new craft project each week through the end of the year here on the Web site.

Also here on the Web site, we’re keeping a list of who’s naughty and nice… oh, just kidding. We’re keeping a list of all the family-friendly holiday events you may want to enjoy this season. That list is here.

This issue’s cover models are Jacqueline and Nathaniel Thornell, who live in Yakima. To let us know you’d like to see your kids on the cover, enter our ongoing photo contest here. The winner of the Gotcha! contest has their photo published in the magazine. And sometimes we like to pick our cover models from those photographs as well.

Have a great Thanksgiving!

ArtsVan needs a push

I generally refrain from using Playdate to advocate, but I suspect this is a cause a lot of mamas care about: The Yakima City Council needs to make some major budget cuts this year and one of the things they’re considering is cutting the $5,333 contribution the city makes toward the summer ArtsVan program.

IMHO, the city gets a lot of bang for its buck by supporting program, which visits various parks each weekday for several weeks in summer. I like that the art projects are accessible to all kids since they’re free and offered at so many different locations. And, frankly, I feel our parks department isn’t offering nearly enough recreation programs as it should be for a city of Yakima’s size.

So, here’s a little more on the ArtsVan funding situation from the Allied Arts e-newsletter. If this program is something your family enjoys, I’d encourage you to speak up.

As reported in the November 18 issue of the Yakima Herald Republic, City Council members are considering cutting all city funding to Allied Arts’ ArtsVan program (as well as funding for the Yakima Symphony and RSVP).

In previous years, the city has provided Allied Arts with $5,333 to run the free summer arts program for area youth, that was established with city funds in 1985. While this only covers a portion of ArtsVan’s $20,000 operating cost,it is still a significant amount, without which ArtsVan could not continue to serve the Valley at the same capacity. ArtsVan is vital to the city and should remain partially subsidized by the city.

This past summer saw an increase in the number of children attending ArtsVan: 5,215 in 2009 up from 4,163 in 2008. ArtsVan offers valuable arts education and experiences not found in the classroom, while meeting two key points of the City of Yakima’s mission and goals: it is an outstanding service that meets the community’s needs and it enhances Yakima’s quality of life. It also acts as a positive youth program that provides role models for youth.

If you have enjoyed the free ArtsVan programs in the summer, please contact the City Council and urge them to keep the arts in their budget. Letters to the Editor are also greatly appreciated.

Yakima Herald-Republic
Email: opinion@yakimaherald.com (Please put “Letter to the Editor” in the subject line or body of the e-mail; do not send attachments.)
FAX: 509-577-7767 (Please label as “Letter to the Editor”)
Snail Mail:
To the Editor
P.O. Box 9668
Yakima, WA 98909

City Council
Online Contact Form: http://www.ci.yakima.wa.us/council/contact.asp

Staying on the safety watch

After more than a decade in the news business, I’ve certainly come to expect a word of criticism now and then. One of the perks of working at Playdate has been that I tend to receive many more compliments than complaints. Nevertheless, I do hear a complaint now and then, particularly when a reader feels a child’s safety is at risk.

These days, news rooms know to expect calls when they publish a photo of a bicyclist without a helmet or somebody holding a cigarette. I have to admit, though, I was a little surprised when I got a note last year about this photo of a little boy pretending to drive his grandfather’s RV.

“I was disappointed to see the picture of the child in the front seat of the car.  It’s a very unsafe practice, and hopefully you’ll put a statement about that in your next issue,” the e-mail said.

What is there to say? I wondered. The mother was standing close by, taking the photo. The engine wasn’t running. The boy is obviously playing, not actually riding in the front seat of the car. You all know that children should be seated in an appropriate car seat or booster seat in the back seat until they’re either age 8 or at least 4’9″ tall, right? Also, “children under 13 years old be transported in the back seat where it is practical to do so,” according to Washington law.

Anyway, I knew when I first saw this next photo that somebody would be happy to remind me — and you — that infant seats should never be set on an elevated surface.

In fact, the baby’s mother and I talked about that very topic when I called to let her know the photo was selected as the winner of our Gotcha! contest. She was the one who brought it up, pointing out that the chair is actually a very low beach chair and also that she was “right there,” just an arm’s reach from the baby.

After giving it some thought, I didn’t include any sort of warning in the text that we published alongside the photograph. I decided that I didn’t need to make excuses for the photo, which our judges chose because the baby’s kick-back pose and expression made them chuckle.  But I knew it was just a matter of time before I got a letter.

“I am writing out of concern in regards to a picture shown in the most recent Playdate magazine,” said the note in my inbox. “The picture is one of the last pages in the back of the magazine and shows a cute baby in a Bumbo seat. While the baby is adorable, the picture actually shows the baby in a Bumbo and the Bumbo is on what looks to be a lawn chair.

“My concern is that the picture shows the use inappropriate and unsafe use of the Bumbo seat. There are a lot of articles and a statement from Bumbo about the correct use of the seat. It adds: ‘This site is devoted to educating users of the Bumbo Baby Seat how to use the product safely in order to prevent falls. Never use the Bumbo Baby Seat on any elevated surface and never leave a baby unattended in a Bumbo Baby seat because babies can get out of a Bumbo — it is not a restraint. ‘ http://www.bumbosafety.com/

“Additionally, here is another resource: http://www.bumbobabyseat.com/“

Wow! A whole Web site dedicated to the proper use of the product… got me thinking that our Yakima mama wasn’t the first person to put the Bumbo on an elevated surface. I forwarded the letter from our concerned reader onto the baby’s mother to get her thoughts.

“[R]egarding the safety concerns I’d like to note (and you may remember from our chat) this lawn chair was significantly low to the ground and he was within an arm’s reach. At that time (4 mos.), he was no where near capable of climbing out of the Bumbo. However, he is crawling now and pulling to a stand. The last time we … put him in the Bumbo on an elevated surface, I barely caught him in time as he climbed out and was taking a header towards the ground. The Bumbo has a bold warning in red right on the product as well as on the packaging and in the instruction manual so unless a parent can’t read or doesn’t pay attention to such warnings, a parent may or may not knowingly and willingly take the same risk I did. I was always aware of the risks and carefully supervised him, but the incident did happen very, very fast. I would certainly support any warning or disclaimer you might want to include in the next issue of Playdate.

“Thanks for forwarding that message on to me. As you noted, a response was likely and the author does have a point. I can’t say I wouldn’t have written something similar out of concern for baby safety.”

As the mother said, when accidents happen, they do have a tendancy to happen very, very fast. You don’t ever hear people say, “Johnny had been playing in the middle of the street for about an hour when this car rolled down the street at 20 mph and hit him.” Nope, Johnny darted out, the car swung around the corner too fast, the sun was in the driver’s eyes…  When accidents happen, we’re usually not expecting it. And, unfortunately, all the seatbelts, helmets and properly used Bumbo seats in the world aren’t going to keep our babies safe all of the time. But we’ve still got to do what we can, right?

Baby Einstein not so genius

I’m guessing you’d already realized that watching videos with random images set to the tune of classical music isn’t making our babies any smarter. Doesn’t take an Einstein, right?

So, assuming you haven’t already thrown out your Baby Einstein videos with the bath water, you might be interested to know that Disney is offering a refund for any of those lame-brained baby videos you may have collecting dust on the shelf. To get your refund, the video must be purchased in the last five years and you must submit your claim before March 4, 2010. Find all the rules and whatnot here.

The refund is the result of continued pressure from the Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood, which in 2006 filed a complaint to the Federal Trade Commission requesting that Disney stop claiming that Baby Einstein videos were educational for infants.

If you’re interested in the politics of this topic, check out the latest scuttlebutt on the D.C.-based Web magazine Slate, http://www.slate.com/id/2233556/. (A little heads-up that the author penned this as a Bush attack, which isn’t my intent. I just like Noah’s take on the “mompreneur” who created the videos. Common knowledge seems to be that kids under the age of 2 shouldn’t be watching any TV, so the idea that somebody who markets programs especially for this age group would be held up as a hero is a little absurd.)

That said, both my kids watched TV before they were 2… and they still do. No doubt, they watch too much. But if your tots enjoy Baby Einstein and the show buys Mom a few minutes of freedom to make dinner/help with homework/paint her toenails/whatever, I’ve got no problem with it.

So, while I’m not deluded that watching TV is going to make my kids smarter, here’s one study that agrees with me that a little TV in an otherwise healthy childhood isn’t going to harm a kid either. Here’s the news release from the March issue of Pediatrics, the journal of the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP):

TELEVISION AND VIDEOS FOR CHILDREN UNDER 2 MAY NOT INFLUENCE SKILL DEVELOPMENT

Exposing infants and toddlers to television does not improve their language and visual motor skills at age 3, but does not appear to harm them either. In the study, “Television Viewing in Infancy and Child Cognition at 3 Years of Age in a US Cohort,” researchers looked at the amount of time 872 children spent watching television or videos from birth to 2 years of age, then assessed their language and visual motor skills at age 3. When researchers adjusted for other factors that could influence these skills, such as maternal education and breastfeeding, the effect of television appeared neutral. Contrary to many parents’ perception that television viewing is beneficial to their children’s brain development, the researchers found no evidence of such a benefit. The authors point out that there are many potential benefits of limiting television exposure in children, including improved diet, lower risk of overweight, less exposure to violent content, and improved sleep quality.

Forecast: Cloudy (with a Chance of Meatballs)

Looks like it’s going to be a kind of crummy weekend, weather-wise. I just checked the forecast, which predicted daytime highs in the upper 50s and rain looming on Sunday.

To me, this sounds like a perfect excuse to go to the movies.

I’ll admit, I haven’t seen too many movies in the theater in the past six-and-a-half years (since my life “with kids” began). With no grandparents in town, paying for the babysitter (and the popcorn) turns a movie date into a plus-$50 splurge. Not too practical, you know?

My husband is still marveling at the time when, shortly after our son was born, we left the baby with grandma (we lived in Portland then) for a few hours and went downtown to see “Master and Commander” (his choice) and I fell asleep before the title credits ever ran. It’s a testimony to that new-mama exhaustion you’re probably all too familiar with. Actually, it was the best $9 nap I ever had.

Anyway, the good news about this weekend’s forecast is that a) my kids are finally old enough to go to the theater with us, and b) there are actually quite a few family movies to choose from this weekend. So, without further ado, here’s a look at this weekend’s G- and PG-rated lineup at Yakima Theatres, in alphabetical order:

ASTRO BOY (PG) | 12:45 p.m., 3:10 p.m., 6:50 p.m., 8:55 p.m. at The Majestic. Just released today, critics already are down on the animation of this anime film about a boy robot built by a government scientist (voiced by Nicholas Cage) to replace his lost son. Think Pinocchio-meets-Frankenstein with a good-natured hero? Though I suspect my son would like it, this isn’t not the kind of flick that fuels my jets. We’ll wait for the DVD.

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CLOUDY WITH A CHANCE OF MEATBALLS (PG) | 12:30 p.m., 2:50 p.m., 6:35 p.m., 8:35 p.m. at The Majestic. Our family enjoys the imaginative picture book (written by Judi Barrett and illustrated by Ron Barrett) that’s the basis for this animated 3D movie, so the initial previews piqued our interest. I checked the reviews at Rotten Tomatos, which seemed so appropriate for this foodie flick, and it looks like most viewers enjoy this movie even though it deviates substantially from the book’s plot. I just might bite.

FAME (PG) | 12:30 p.m., 2:55 p.m., 6:20 p.m., 8:45 p.m. at Yakima Cinema. Based on the reviews, this remake of the Oscar-winning 1980 film is a bomb… not to be confused with “the bomb.” In case you don’t remember, it’s the story of a multi-ethnic group of teens selected for New York City’s High School for the Performing Arts who push their talents to the limit to make it big in show biz. I somewhat shamefully admit this is the kind of story I loved as a tween/teenager. Thankfully, my kids are still too young to care. For those of you with older kids, however, it should be noted that the original movie (though all around better) is probably “sexier [and] grittier than you recall.”

MORE THAN A GAME (PG) | 12:10 p.m., 2:50 p.m., 6:15 p.m., 8:50 p.m. at Yakima Cinema. Most audiences are fans of this basketball documentary following the story of future NBA superstar LeBron James and his high school teammates in Akron, Ohio. The film has a positive message and should be appropriate for school-aged basketball buffs. There’s some mild language (“jerk and hell”) and a few references to drugs in the projects and “getting girls,” but clever parents should be able to spin these topics into a positive discussion with their kids.

NIGHTMARE BEFORE CHRISTMAS (PG) | 12:20 p.m., 2:30 p.m., 6:25 p.m., 8:30 p.m. at The Majestic. Tim Burton’s magical Halloweentown classic is being shown on the big screen in digital 3D. Although characters remove their heads and limbs, this seasonally appropriate stop-action animation pic is generally regarded as appropriate for kids age 7 and up. My 4-year-old daughter doesn’t like “bad guys,” so I suspect she wouldn’t like this movie. But for promise of popcorn and a Red Vine, she might be coerced to try…

TOY STORY & TOY STORY 2 (G) | 12 p.m., 3:35 p.m., 7:10 p.m. at The Majestic. This Disney-Pixar double feature promises to take viewers “to infinity and beyond” in digital 3D. Fun, for sure, since I enjoyed both these videos — never saw either in the theater — but haven’t seen them to the extent of, say, “Wiggly Wiggly Christmas” (my daughter’s favorite show of late). This one’s definitely a temptation (especially with the 2-for-1 pricing), but the realist in me is wondering whether my kiddos could sit through the two-hour, 53-minute presentation without visiting the Majestic’s teeny-tiny toilets in the family restroom too many times. Probably not.

WHERE THE WILD THINGS ARE (PG) | 12:10 p.m., 2:25 p.m., 6:30 p.m., 8:40 p.m. at The Majestic. I actually named my son after Max, king of the Wild Things (which in 20/20 hindsight maybe wasn’t the wisest thing to do), so you can bet I’m going to see this movie. I’m just hoping I’ll like it. Or, at least, that the Spike Jonze adaptation won’t somehow ruin Maurice Sendak’s classic children’s book for me (I’d eat it up, I love it so).  From what I’ve read, most folks seem to like the movie (moderately) although it can be a little too dark and intense for the preschool set that’s targeted by the picture book. Still, I’m guessing my wee wild things will be able to handle this one. So, I say, “Let the wild rumpus start!”

Have a great (cloudy) weekend!

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Wondering whether a movie is suitable for your family? Check out the online reviews at commonsensemedia.org. In addition to letting you know whether a film is any good, the site gives detailed recommendations for parents and lets you you know about every burp and (bleep) so you can make an informed decision.

How do you spell b-o-l-o-g-n-a?

Hey, all you Oscar Mayer fans, this just in: The 27-foot-long Wienermobile is pulling into Yakima Thursday morning.

Yep, that’s a custom-made fiberglass hot dog resting on a lightly toasted bun… the stuff childhood dreams are made of. Visit the Wienermobile for free at various local groceries this week to play games and pick up an elusive Wiener Whistle. Hot dogs will be served at some locations.

You can ketchup (I relish a good pun) with cross-country hotdoggers Alison and Mary Kate at the following Yakima locations:

Thursday:
8 a.m. to 12 p.m. Top Food and Drug, 2203 S. First St.
1-5 p.m. Safeway, 2204 W. Nob Hill Blvd. (Hot dogs will be served.)

Friday:
1-5 p.m. Safeway, 5702 Summitview Ave. (Hot dogs will be served.)

Saturday:
8 a.m. to 12 p.m. Rosauers, 410 S. 72nd Ave.
1-5 p.m. Albertson’s, 401 S. 40th Ave. (Hot dogs will be served.)

To read all about life inside the Wienermobile with Alison and Mary Kate, read their blog at hotdoggerblog.com.

Le petit prince

A little Frenchman was born this morning, 1:40 a.m. Paris time. His mother was recovering well after delivering by Cesarean. His father was stressed then relieved, ultimately proud.

Across the world, I learned about the birth from an e-mail. Sent mes féliciations via Facebook.

Sometimes it’s amazing how small the world can be.

In 1994-95, I spent a year in Dijon, France, as an exchange student with Rotary International. I was 18 years old, and it was a big thing for a girl from a small town to do. With four years of high school French under my belt and three bags full of clothes, I set off across the world on my own. On my own. As a mother, the idea of my own children leaving on their own makes my stomach knot.

To let me go, my mother must have been very brave. I suppose that going made me brave, too.

It was a hard year in a lot of ways. We didn’t have e-mail or Facebook back then. I spoke to my parents once a month on the phone (and it cost them a fortune). Correspondence with other friends and family was all via snail mail. My French wasn’t that strong and I didn’t know a soul, at least at first. The experience was both amazing and, frequently, quite isolating. And I’d absolutely do it all over again.

Through the years, I’ve managed to keep in touch with several people I knew in Dijon. I’ve been back to Europe three times since my exchange, including one trip where I was able to show my husband where I lived and introduce him to the families who hosted me. Mostly, we keep in touch with Christmas cards and wedding photos. But when I think of France, I know real people, not stereotypes or caricatures. And when I look at that photo of my host sister holding her newborn baby, she looks like any other mother I know. Absolutely in love with that little prince. Day 1.

A couple weeks ago, I had the amazing experience of being able to spend an evening with one of my old classmates from Dijon. Maëlle was a French girl in my class, almost three years younger than me but one of my better buds while I was there. A year after I came home, she came and spent a month with me in Grants Pass, Ore., my hometown. It wasn’t anything formal, just something we’d worked out so she could visit the U.S. and work on her English.

After that summer, we lost touch for at least a decade, then found each other on Facebook about a year ago. She works in international business these days and, in September, her job brought her over to Seattle. I made the two-hour drive over the mountains to see her. Thankfully, Maëlle’s English is much better than my rusty French these days, so we had a really nice visit. She doesn’t have kids yet and she had a lot of questions about how becoming a mother had changed my life. It’s a lot like traveling to a foreign country, I told her. It’s an amazing adventure. Sometimes isolating. Really, you just can’t know how different it’s going to be until you get there. And I’d absolutely do it all over again.

Congratulations, Stéphanie and Fréderic. Enjoy your new adventure!

A quick look at the fair

I took my favorite 6-year-old on a mad dash through the Central Washington State Fair after school on Friday. For about two hours, we ran around in search of fair highlights like a couple of frantic contestants from The Amazing Race (which premieres Sunday … but you already knew that, right?)

Of course, it’s hard for a kid to see all the fun (and all the food) and not really participate in it, but Max knew our mission was just to make a list of some of the stuff we’d like to come back and see later. (Stuff that, presumably, you would like to see with your family as well.)  So, the boy was game. He even took some of the pictures.

And so, without further ado, here’s the Max-and-Mama rundown of all the great stuff for kids at this year’s fair:

First up, let’s hope you’ve got bucks in your budget for a carnival wristband. They’re $25 each on Tuesdays-Fridays and $30 on Saturdays-Mondays. (Find deals on admission here.) Individual carnival tickets will set you back $1 each — at 3-5 tickets per ride, that will catch up to you in no time. And, worse even, is that the kids (unless they’re very young) won’t be satisfied with just one or two rides.  As my kids get older, they’re also becoming more interested in the carnival games. To date, we’ve managed to avoid these money pits, which are running about $5 a pop this year. Thankfully, most of the games have a guaranteed prize, so at least your garbage can won’t be lonely.

Note that there are a couple of ride-type attractions, including the Sundola and the rock-climbing wall that require a separate ticket. My kids loved the Sundola when we rode it last year. Being a ‘fraidy cat when it comes to heights, I did not. Regardless of whether you enjoy it, the sky lift will move you to the other end of the park for $3.50 or $4 for the round trip. Kids under 42″ are $1/$2. The rock-climbing wall is $5.

Don’t forget to pick up a daily events calendar when you enter the park. My kids wouldn’t know Juice Newton from a fig newton, but they’re entranced by performers on the smaller stages (and not just the hypnotist). Especially with younger kids, it’s important to build in some time to just have a snack and rest. In my experience, you’ll be able to stay longer and have more fun if you don’t push the kids too hard. The Gazebo near the main entrance is a great spot to support local kids dancing, playing marimba, demonstrating karate, etc. The grassy lawn at the Pacific Power Community Stage near the food vendors is a great place to have a snack.

Wishing you had a map? Download one here.

This year’s most hyped attraction, Candy Nation, is likely to get the family hyped — on sugar, if nothing else. Unfortunately, Max and I spent at least 20 minutes in this Pioneer Hall attraction and neither the chocolate factory conveyor belt nor the Beanboozled Wheel were active. I’m not sure if that’s a complaint, though, since I wasn’t exactly looking forward to trying to decide whether the jelly bean in my mouth had the flavor of booger or juicy pear. Eww.

I was a little disappointed by the candy mountain (which seemed kinda worn), but the Candy Nation exhibit is still worth checking out. Max loved it, especially because I let him pick a treat in the candy shop. If you’re a candy fan (and who isn’t?), they’ve got rock candy, Black Jack chewing gum and about 632 varieties of Pez dispensers. There’s something for every sweet tooth… though I have to say, I was disappointed to see candy cigarettes on the shelves.

If that exhibit leaves you longing to brush your teeth, there’s an Apple Valley Dental booth just outside. Gotta admit, that dental office has some marketing smarts. My son’s been begging to go to the dentist all summer. How often does that happen?

If you have small kids, one place you definitely don’t want to miss is the Valley Building. This is a nice, cool building to just relax for a bit and let the kids play. There’s an amazing bin of feed corn (kids love this), a hay bale maze, pony rides, a hands-on milking exhibit and don’t miss the Mad Science demonstrations in the back corner. Just outside the door, Goat Mountain is another cute stop.

We also dropped in to visit the draft horses, including King here, in the nearby Expo Building. This is what a horse looks like when you’re less than 4-feet tall:

With our limited time on Friday, Max and I didn’t visit the other animal barns, but we definitely will. I love the long-haired highland cattle and baby pigs. Also, it’s fun to walk out behind the livestock barns and see if you can watch the 4-H kids bathing and grooming their show animals.

For a totally different kind of animal, the Jungle Experience is a stage show presented at 1 p.m., 3 p.m. and 6 p.m. daily just south of the Modern Living Building (quilts). The jungle show features more than 20 animals including two Bengal tigers, a Burmese python, an Asian Fishing Cat and several colorful macaws. You may want to show up a bit early to get a good seat.

In the same area, get the kiddos (ages 4 and older) signed up to compete in the Kid’s Pedal Tractor Pull. It’s a great photo op and it’s FREE! Last year, my kids earned gift certificates for a milkshake at Red Robin. Not sure if that’s the deal this year, but it’s fun either way. Check the daily schedule for other competitive events, such as a funnel cake eating contest and an idol contest. This is what the fair’s all about, right?

And, seriously people, you can’t go to the fair without stopping in the enormous Ag Building for a look at the grange displays and crazy vegetables. Make it a scavenger hunt by asking kids to hunt for the biggest pumpkin, or to find a scarecrow. Upstairs, find photography, scrapbooking, children’s artwork and more. There are affordable little cans of apple juice for sale on the main level (usually about 3/$1), as well as an ice cream shop.

And, it’s helpful to know that there’s a family restroom on the south side (outside) of the Ag Building. We’ve never had to wait in line at this location.

Hope you have a great visit!

Monday morning lockdown

As far as excuses go, this one’s probably right up there with the dog eating your homework: “Sorry, Boss, I’m going to be late…. actually, this might take awhile. You see, I’m stuck in lockdown at my daughter’s daycare. I think somebody’s trying to rob the bank across the street. I’m not really sure when I’ll be able to get out of here. I’ll call you later.”

Sound like somebody’s got a case of the Mondays? No, really! I spent three hours Monday morning locked inside KinderCare, thanks to some jerk who tried to rob the bank across the street.

The day started for me like they usually do: I dropped my first-grader off at his school, then headed up Summitview to KinderCare, the child care center that’s been watching my kids for the past 2 ¹/_² years.

The center is more than 30 blocks from my house, in the wrong direction from work, but I like it there. Why? Well, I love Ms. Veronica’s contagious laughter and chatting with Ms. Judy in the office. I like that my 4-year-old can write all her letters and recite the days of the week. But here’s what I’m really paying for: Safety.

I like the keypad lock at the front door and the six-foot fence around the playground. I like that administrators and parents are able to look into all the classrooms from the hall to make sure everything’s OK. And, I like the way the staff handled the emergency lockdown on Monday.

On my drive up Summitview, I had a little warning that things were shaping up strangely. Just as I was approaching the school, I had to pull over three times in one block for police vehicles with their lights flashing. While I was pretty sure they didn’t weren’t trying to surround ME, there was a brief moment where I was pulled over in front of Banner Bank (scene of the crime) and I was in fact surrounded my multiple police cars (and saw more lights coming my way). I ducked out of their way and pulled into the daycare parking lot, telling my daughter that we needed to hurry inside.

At the same time I was pulling into the lot, a teacher was parking a KinderCare bus after dropping elementary kids off at school. She saw what was shaping up on the street and hollered at another teacher whose class was playing outside that everybody needed to get in the building. The teachers immediately notified the center’s assistant director Judy Epperheimer, who was in charge of the building at that time, and she put the school in lockdown mode. Everybody — including three moms who were dropping off kids — would have to stay inside the building, away from the windows.

The staff was absolutely professional — calm and collected. Some of the older kids (including my Annie) thought “it’s silly to have moms at school,” but they didn’t have a clue about the cops and would-be robber who were outside. Center staff hung makeshift curtains over the windows to prevent the kids from seeing anything that might be going on outside. (I was curious and peeked out the windows, but there wasn’t much to see. Ultimately, that’s a good thing when you’re surrounded by dozens of children, I suppose.)

“It’s the first time in 23 years I’ve ever had an officer with a rifle come to the door,” Ms. Judy told me. It was the first time in her lengthy tenure that she’d ever needed to put the school’s emergency plan into use, thank goodness. But you’d never know it.  Throughout the morning, she calmly handled an endless stream of calls: Parents and grandparents wanting to make sure their kids were safe. Parents and staff who weren’t able to get to the center because of police barricades.

Mostly, though, there was just business as usual: Reading books, practicing numbers, playing with dough and puppets and blocks. We used walking feet and listening ears and tried not to burp during lunch.

Ms. Judy offered the parents donuts and coffee. While munching my maple bar in the staff room, I noticed an official KinderCare calendar, published by the Portland-based parent company, Knowledge Learning Corporation. Each day has a different “to do” task for the centers. Somebody had checked off each day’s task as they’d been completed. Monday’s reminder, coincidentally: Update emergency plan. Check!

Nearly three hours after we arrived to drop off our kids, the three stranded moms got word that we could leave. We left. And we left our kids there…. because the center was doing exactly what we were paying them to do: Keeping our kids safe.

A million thanks, ladies!

The fair-est deals of all

Looking forward to some “Fair-N-Dipity” at this year’s Central Washington State Fair? The theme, a play on the word serendipity, will focus on “discovering desirable and valuable things unexpectedly at the fair.”

Here, you can discover desirable and valuable things before you ever go to the fair. I’m talking about a deal, friends.

First off, admission for kids ages 5 and younger is always free. Regular admission is $12 for adults, $7 for youth (ages 6-12) and $9 for seniors (65+). Carnival wristbands are $25 Tuesday-Friday and $30 Saturday-Monday.

So, let’s assume you have two adults and two kids, ages 4 and 6. Regular admission plus two wristbands would be $33 plus $50/$60 (depending on what day you go) = $83/$93.

We can do better than that.

First, you can buy discounted carnival wristband vouchers ($22) until 5 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 24 at the State Fair Park box office, Banner Banks, Wray’s, Fiesta Foods, Big R and most Yakima AM/PMs. Cash only, except the fair box office, which will accept credit cards.

Advance purchase will save you $3-$8 off the cost of each wristband. That’s enough to buy a corn dog!
Adjusted cost for my example family: $77/$77. If they visit the fair on a weekend, they’ve just saved $16.

Bet we can still do better. Here’s some info about the fair’s promo days that offer a price break on admission/carnival rides:

Friday, Sept. 25 — KIMA TV “Dollar Day”
Deal: $1 Gate Admission (11 a.m. to 3 p.m.) and $6 parking all day.
Example family: $3 admission + $44 advance purchase wristbands = $47 total ($36 savings). Awesome deal! Without buying wristbands in advance, the total is $53 — still a sweet deal.

Monday, Sept. 28 — Franz Bread Day
Deal: Bring an empty bag of Franz bread with a blue sticker on it, pay $25 for admission and a wristband. One sticker per person is required. Note: This is the only pay-one-price promo day this year. Also, Yakima School District kids will get out of school early, so this is a fairly practical day to go.
Example family (updated 9/24 and 9/26): For the adults, purchase two admissions/wristbands for $50 + $7 youth admission = $57 total ($36 savings). Give the wristbands to the kids. Note: Today, our example family pays a little more with advance purchase wristbands: two wristbands at $22 each + $33 admission = $77 total. But that’s still a $16 savings off the full price (wristbands are $30 today).

Wednesday, Sept. 30 — Pepsi Kids Day
Deal: All kids ages 12 & younger get free admission all day when they bring an empty 12-oz Pepsi can or other Pepsi product can (Mountain Dew, Mug Root Beer, 7-Up, Squirt, Dr. Pepper). Enter through Blue Gate or Gold Gate. One can per youth. Kids must be accompanied by an adult.
Example family: $24 admission for two adults + $44 advance purchase wristbands for kids = $66 total ($17 savings). Without buying wristbands in advance, the total is $74 ($9 savings). And, this deal improves if you have more kids ages 6-12.

Sunday, Oct. 4 — Sonic Family Day
Deal: Pay $25 and receive gate admission for two adults and three youth. No coupon required; just ask for the Sonic Family Day special. (Remember: Kids 5 and younger are always free.)
Example family: $25 admission + $44 for two advance purchase wristbands = $69 total ($34 savings). With wristbands purchased at the carnival = $85 ($8 savings). However, this deal definitely improves when you have more than one child age 6-12.

Also, here’s the entertainment lineup and fair hours each day, in case that helps you decide when to go.

• Friday, Sept. 25: 11 a.m. – 11 p.m. Jamie Lee Thurston. American Sprint Car Series NW Region.
• Saturday, Sept. 26: 11 a.m. – 11 p.m. Phil Vassar. American Sprint Car Series NW Region.
• Sunday, Sept. 27: 11 a.m. – 10 p.m. Juice Newton. Latino Festival: Yolanda Del Rio, Con Mariachi, El Chichicuilote and more.
• Monday, Sept. 28: 11 a.m. – 10 p.m. Guitar Hero. Red Hot Ride Horsemanship Challenge.
• Tuesday, Sept. 29: 11 a.m. – 10 p.m. Billy Ray Cyrus.
• Wednesday, Sept. 30: 11 a.m. – 10 p.m. Boys II Men.
• Thursday, Oct. 1: 11 a.m. – 10 p.m. REO Speedwagon.
• Friday, Oct. 2: 11 a.m. – 11 p.m. Curtis Salgado. Pro-West Finals Rodeo.
• Saturday, Oct. 3: 11 a.m. – 11 p.m. Little River Band. Pro-West Finals Rodeo.
• Sunday, Oct. 4: 11 a.m. – 9 p.m. Laura Flores and Sergio Goyri. Demolition Derby.

Cutest cover ever

We’ve just wrapped up production on the next issue of Playdate and I have to say, with all due respect to our previous issues (because I love them all), this one is our cutest cover ever. Our cover kids are Seri and Jett Nugent, who we discovered when their mother Timi submitted this photo to our Gotcha photo contest a couple months ago:

This isn’t the same photo that will be on the cover, but we do love those tights, so we asked Seri to wear them for our photo shoot, which she did. Yay!

Look for Playdate at your favorite stand next Friday, Sept. 25. This issue includes a round up of fall harvest festivals and upcoming children’s theater productions as well as a chat with three Yakima-area moms who’ve had breast cancer. October is National Breast Cancer Awareness Month.

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